Thursday, 22 March 2012

TRUST THE LORD

   Last year was full of tragedy and it started when my neighbour told my husband that she intended to get us out at any cost and she did not care what happened to us. I have suffered with spastic paraplegia, bladder retention, CKD 3 and there is debate about the Leaukemia. However, I have Lepidermitosclerosis. The latter means that my legs swell up, go hard, red, scaly, and painful. I am at high risk of DVT (Deep Vein Thrombosis). The latter was diagnosed only recently.


  My neighbour claimed that I was feigning my illness. My neighbour managed to get us in court on hearsay and there were no facts presented in the case. My husband and I were forced to plead guilty, by our so called legal person, and if we did not do, as was instructed-we were going to lose our home anyway; basically, a no  win situation. We were not only being harassed by my  neighbour constantly, which nobody cared to listen and not only were we treated vehemently by the ABATE team of Norwich City Council-the barrister of Norwich City Council could have been  Faust. He controlled the trial and no matter if we told the truth, it would be a lie. This is what he made clear to us in court and the final edge was when he called the Bible a lie. 


  I must have hit mental melt-down, as I passed out in court. The clanger was when the barrister said that he had it from a reliable source that somebody had been sleeping in our  cooker and washing machine. I KID YOU NOT...! 


  After I took an overdose, Stonham was called in-they took it to another judge. Unfortunately, a district and not a circuit judge. According to Judge Sparrow (no relation)-it should not have gotten into court, as the plaintiffs reports were so inconsistent with the fact and that no time was our health considered.


  November 11, 2011 was the turning point in our lives. We found ourselves in a motel, until February 28th of this year being 2012. My husband and I was together, as husband and wife, until I got ill and am now in a residential care home being well looked after...but forever, worrying about my husband. However, I have faith that we will be together again one day. 


  This blog is going to be a journal of our lives from the start of this blog, until we are rehoused and I have my own computer and get back online again. I pray day and night for my husband and I are reunited again.  I am lucky to be in a place, where I can be looked after and get my medicines regularly, but it would be wonderful, if my husband were with me. I may still need nursing care, when we are rehoused, but I won't complain. My husband is a good primary carer, but he is two years off of being 60 and is going to soon have care needs of his home. He is living rough  and it does worry me, but he lives by faith and tries to read his bible without his reading glasses. Our love for one another is stronger than ever, but being apart is hard in that we miss praying together and being in each others' arms. 


  At the end of the day; my neighbour may have destroyed our home, but our love for one another is stronger than ever and although we are apart physically,we are together spiritually.  TRUE LOVE CAN CONQUER ANY TRIALS THAT IT FACES and our love is as 'true' as it can get. 


  I appreciate the care home allowing me use of the computer to blog this journal and I hope that this blog will be evidence of the LOVE OF CHRIST AND OUR HEAVENLY FATHER and how our love for them and each other will bring us through  this ordeal. 


  I will continue writing a little bit each day and I hope that those whose lives are in turmoil will see that they are not alone and that life may be hard and cruel, but with faith-even a little bit, life will not be cruel for long, and that we can overcome the odds. I have faith that the Lord is looking after my husband.  I have to have faith that he is looking after my husband, as he is physically on his own; except, with some help from another source, but that he is protected. 


 What we lose in this life; we gain in the after-life. There are many worlds that we can inhabit after this one, but we have to live by faith and love one another in this one as my dad says about the Bible. [B.I.B.L.E.-Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth]

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